Love in Action....Mindfullness in relationships

"An alive relationship is always changing. It has many climates, many moods. It has many surprises. A dead relationship remains stagnant. It is repetitive, it is the same, but then it is no more a relationship. Then you are not two persons, you are two things together. Of course two things never quarrel. The quarrel arises when two persons enter" ~Osho 

~In all of our intimate ventures we are all looking to be valued, loved, and appreciated. Having someone that makes you feel good, someone that you relate too, someone you can trust, someone that you can be yourself with etc..When we are in a relationship with another person, we energetically connect to them, our chakras get connected. In my personal journey of relationships: I have been in dead, abusive, one sided, and co-dependent relationships. All of them were fear based, there was no love in action or live pulse to them. I was repeating my own personal dysfunctional patterns within them, it was a constant stagnation that did not bring any life or action, it was the same quarrel all the time, so it got old, because it was the same story. Quarrel is not bad when it is challenging and inspires growth and sometimes needed help the relationship evolve. When I would attempt to show up to the quarrel it would escalate to fear, but  that was me wanting to step out of the stagnation and looking for change? As children we learn how to show up in relationships, we learn how to survive, how to connect, how to disconnect, how to love, how to be treated etc..As we continue to grow and develop we begin to put our perception of relationships into practice, some of us continue to go through this cycles all our lives, some of us decide that we want change and don't settle for dead relationships. And acknowledge that to keep a relationship alive it needs to continue to change. We begin to observe our own patterns? Learn and value what we offer? And encourage others to do the same within the relationship! Love in action is all about participation! Being love within a dyad and being love in autonomy as well! Love is the greatest motivation and healer of all times! It is the infinite feeling that keeps you connected and committed to yourself and to a relationship. The only constant is change, but it takes a lot of courage to look at ourselves and reflect on how we show up in relationships because its not pretty at times! You grieve, you forgive, you feel lost? But your anchor is love! The distractions we create to keep ourselves from undoing our own lies are the things that keep us in dysfunction! To be alive in love, risks have to be taken, fears have to be conquered, grief has to be felt! That is the only way we can be able to live a full life! Feeling every experience to our core and being able to Learn, Observe, Value, and Encourage!!! Love in action is nothing more than daily self commitment! Action is not always in the doing? It is in the way we approach things? The way we follow through and the way we move forward still participating with our hearts wide open! 

Keep your heart open, your love alive, and your life in motion!!!! The way we relate to others will shift! Just see it happen...